In life, any problem which keeps you bothering and remains unresolved, you will be exercising maximum control on that unresolved problem.
At a given point of time, some problem takes up the upper seat, and some problem go to the back seat where you will exercise maximum control to solve the problem.
It may be a physical problem, relationship or may be about a desire or a loss.
Find what is that one problem which is predominantly going on in your mind and you try to control it, offer the problem at the Lotus feet of Divine Mother.